You have come across someone interesting and desire to convey your interest. It can be difficult because it is your first date and you do not know him all that well. Kissing them on the first date will certainly send a message of interest, but it can harm your actual image. You can even speak your feelings, which can make you seem desperate. However, there are many good ways to clearly get across what is in your mind and let your feelings across.
Subtle flirting – Make use of your body language – eye contact demonstrates attraction and genuine smile talks about pleasure and friendliness. Therefore, pay attention to what is said and if something funny is said smile or grin with an eye wink. Keep an eye contact and hold their gaze while communicating. This will send a message you are fascinated in what is being discussed.
Comment – Naturally, take part in the conversation and put across your opinion. Ask questions and respond, make the topic more interesting. Add a little playfulness in your attitude and tease. It will put them at ease and they will comfortably open up with you. People feel flattered, when they find someone is really involved with them.
Challenge – Don't just nod at whatever is said but be challenging and provoke them. It will make them see that you are an interesting person to spend time with. Challenge excites anyone and conveys the message that you are not as simple as they see you. Tease them about something they do or say but be careful not to be insensitive.
Have sense of humour – Making someone laugh is an interesting ingredient. People with a good sense of humour are not afraid to display their funny side. Spreading laughter with your sassy sarcasm or clever wit can be a bonding experience and make your date get interested in you.
Open posture – When you are standing facing one other, crossed arm will literally mean that you are creating a barrier. Therefore, lean forward towards your date and make certain that the intimate space is not more than 1.5 feet. If you are sitting then allow your shoulder to brush or touch their knees. Avoid sitting with legs or arms crossed because it exhibits disinterest.
Don't appear squirmy - Another point is that you may be nervous of the fact that your date will read your eyes and recognize your feelings. Therefore, you let your eyes wander away or appear fidgety. Because this can express a feeling that you are not interested.
Magic of touch – During a conversation invade the physical space with a gentle and friendly touch that will convey the statement of interest. When there is attraction people cannot keep their hands off one another. Your delicate touch on the arm sharing a gag or whispering a joke near the ear will display your feelings loud and clear.
Remember to mirror their movements and gestures. You will get inkling if the attraction is mutual or not. You can subtly let them know about your interest in going out again, when you finish your date. Therefore, it is up to you to convert your first attractive date into a meaningful relationship.
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