Traditionally, courtship was regarded to be quite essential. Basically, males had to woo women, so that they are attracted towards them. However, over the years, there has seen massive revolution in this regard. It has changed from one extreme to another. Previously, it was formal and parents had plenty of control. Today, it has become informal and parents have limited control over courtship.
Love yourself – If you do not love yourself, you will not be able to convince the girl that you are an amazing guy. Therefore, first begin loving and respecting yourself and everyone else will see you in a similar way. Build self-confidence and learn the art of communicating with women. Socializing will offer you a lot of practise in understanding ladies. Believe in yourself and also your capabilities, while approaching women.
Look great – Well, actually looks are not every girl's priority, but it will surely add to your self-confidence and personality. Stay fit, dress and smell great to make the best first impression.
Stop wooing, start attracting - There are two basic models of approaching women. Using the traditional courting way will have her run away. However, if your approach is based on attracting her then her response will surprise you. Having her chasing you makes a lot of difference.
Be dominant – Traditional courting is grounded on what you give including gifts, flowers, compliments dinners and more. Attraction is centred on your communication skill and personal distinctiveness. Women do not prefer a submissive, weak and hanger-on male, but is attracted to a dominant, leader, and strong person. Therefore, stop kowtowing and learn to attract women.
Stay in control - Mostly every male angles themselves by seeking and following her approval. She leads and he follows. Actually, she is not even leading, but he tries to influence her seeking approval with body language and verbal questions. Women get annoyed and hate it. Rather, stay in your course even when she tries to advance. Let her reorient her behaviour, body, moods and respond to yours. Always be in the lead and she will definitely feel attracted towards you.
Never feel jealous – Especially, if she gets plenty of attention from other guys trying to charm her, don't show your jealous streak. She will think you to be a creepy dude. A little jealousy is cute, but only if she responds to your liking.
Dependable guy – Girls love guys helping her in times of trouble. Guys should have a protective streak, but not an overprotective trait. She must feel safe with your presence because she believes you are a person, who handles any kind of tough and rough situation.
Make her pine for you – After both of you really get close, ignore her somewhat. For example, when you are talking with her and things get interesting just hang up saying you have to attend a meeting. This way, you can make her realize your value in her life.
Have the dynamics shifted in your favour using the above tips and get girls tripping for a date on your social diary.
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